Orang-orang yang beriman dan hati mereka menjadi tenteram dengan mengingat Allah. Ingatlah hanya dengan mengingat Allah-lah hati menjadi tenteram (Ar Ra'd:28)
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Quality Makes Perfect Part (2): Why Measures Quality?
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Quality Makes Perfect (1): What is Quality?
Friday, June 6, 2008

The Road Not taken....
Aku rasa sangat kesunyian di sini, kesepian demi kesepian terus mengekori langkahku. Namun aku kuatkan semangat kerana inilah jalan yang telah aku pilih, jalan yang sedikit di lalui orang. Di kiriku hutan di kananku belantara hanya sekali sekala unggas rimba menyapa kedatangan aku di sepanjang perjalanan. Sedari mula aku memilih jalan ini sudahku ketahui apa yang bakal aku lalui namun kalau bukan aku siapa lagi...Tetapi mengapa tidak ramai yang teringin mengikuti jalan ini...aku akui ianya memang asing, ianya memang sukar, ianya memang payah tapi aku tahu pasti ada penghujungnya jalan ini yang menanti aku dengan sebuah kebahagiaan. Tetapi sebelum aku menemuinya inilah pengorbanan yang aku persembahkan, pengorbanan yang sedikit jika dibandingkan dengan orang yang terdahulu yang pernah melalui jalan ini. Di sini aku hanya bertemankan sepi, bersahabatkan rindu, berkawankan airmata, bermandikan keringat...
Hanya matahari penyuluh jalanku di siang hari dan bulan di malam yang sunyi, tanpa kedua-duanya sudah pasti aku kehilangan arah tuju ke sana. Kompas yang ada di tanganku juga sangat berguna...di sepanjang jalan ini aku putarkan lagu taubat semoga perjalananku sentiasa direstui tanpa dibayangi dosa-dosa lalu...
IlahilastulilFirdausiahlawalaakwa alanaril jahim Allah fahablitaubatan waghfir zunubi faiinaka ghofiru zanbil adzim...
Tuhanku aku tidak layak untuk syurgaMu tetapi aku tidak pula sanggup menanggung siksa nerakaMu dari itu kurniakanlah ampunan kepadaku ampunkanlah dosaku sesungguhnya Engkaulah Pengampun dosa-dosa besar...
Tuhanku tetapkanlah aku sentiasa bersamaMU...
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Love Is The Source Of Life
I have just watched "Children From Heaven"...A lot of lessons could be learned from it. It was so touched that I couldn't stop the rolling tears. The movie was about a poor family. The father is Kareem. Kareem and his wife raised up three children. The first child is Ali who is nine and goes to school in the afternoon. The second is his sister, Zahra studies in the same school but in the morning session. One day Ali went to the town to get his sister's shoes repaired and bought bread and potatoes for his family. While he was picking up some potatoes in the shop a recycled man came outside the shop to pick all the used things and that man took away Ali's plastic bag which contained his sister's shoes....So, the shoes had gone which marked the beginning of thier trials in life. Eventhough the two children have undergone all the trials and tribulations in thier life but they managed to survive as their hearts are always fill with genuine love. The love and affection of a brother to his sister. He has tried his possible best to replace the missing shoes. He struggled so hard for the third place in a cross country as the prize for the third is a pair sneakers...however he got first as he was truely a good runner...
By --Susan Polis Schutz
Friday, May 16, 2008
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Here is the news copied from the HALUAN web site with the intention to help widely spread the news of fund relief collection of HALUAN Malaysia.
HALUAN Aktifkan Misi Kemanusiaan Myanmar Di kemaskini pada Sabtu, 10/05/2008.
Sebagaimana yang kita maklum, Myanmar telah dilanda Taufan Nargis pada 3hb Mei baru lalu. Tiupan taufan yang mencecah sehingga 150 batu sejam tersebut telah meranapkan daerah padat yang terkenal dengan penanaman padi, iaitu Delta Irrawandy. Lima daerah di Myanmar, iaitu Pegu, Irrawandy, Rangoon, Mon dan Karen telah diisytihar sebagai kawasan darurat. Media kerajaan junta Myanmar melaporkan kira-kira 23,000 orang terkorban dan 42,000 orang lagi hilang. Bagaimanapun, terdapat juga laporan-laporan yang tidak dapat disahkan membuat anggaran lebih 120,000 orang telah terkorban atau hilang.
Taufan tersebut memusnahkan 95 peratus dari bangunan dan rumah di 7 bandar di kawasan terbabit. PBB menganggarkan sehingga 1 juta orang kini kehilangan tempat tinggal. Wabak penyakit, terutamanya malaria dan cirit-birit, kini dikatakan bertambah buruk. Manakala kekurangan bekalan makanan merupakan perkara yang mendesak. Mengikut kenyataan U.N. Flash Appeal, lebih 30 peratus kanak-kanak di bawah lima tahun di kawasan terbabit mengalami masalah pemakanan yang kronik akibat kekurangan makanan, bekalan air dan sanitasi dan kawalan kesihatan.
Mengikut dakwaan penduduk-penduduk tua, taufan tersebut adalah yang paling teruk pernah mereka alami. Sementara media-media antarabangsa menyifatkan kejadian ini sebagai bencana alam terburuk sejak kejadian tsunami tahun 2004 lalu.
HALUAN menyahut tanggungjawab untuk membantu mangsa-mangsa Taufan Nargis ini dengan mengaktifkan urusetia Misi Kemanusiaan Myanmar. InsyaAllah relawan-relawan HALUAN, termasuk kumpulan medik daripada Kelab Kesihatan HALUAN (KKH) kini bersedia untuk dihantar ke Myanmar. Pihak urusetia sedang menunggu beberapa perkara berkaitan birokrasi sebelum dapat menghantar pasukan relawan.
HALUAN sekali lagi mengajak masyarakat prihatin untuk sama-sama membantu mangsa bencana ini. Berilah apa juga bentuk sumbangan, seperti pakaian, kewangan, makanan mahupun ubat-ubatan. Untuk beberapa pasukan awal, keutamaan akan diberi kepada bantuan perubatan dan bekalan susu bayi dan kanak-kanak. Justeru, tuan puan yang mempunyai sumber ubat-ubatan atau susu, sangat dialu-alukan untuk turut membantu.
Kaedah yang paling efektif untuk membantu Misi Kemanusiaan Myanmar ini adalah melalui sumbangan kewangan. Bantuan kewangan boleh disalurkan ke
Tabung Kemanusiaan HALUANBank Islam Malaysia BerhadAkaun No 14-023-01-002571-8
Sila hubungi pejabat HALUAN tempatan untuk maklumat lanjut.
Anda juga boleh berhubung terus dengan
Pengarah Operasi Misi Kemanusiaan Myanmar, Hj Mohd Azhar Idris di talian 012 601 2743 atau
En Fadzil di talian 013 484 1309.
Semoga setiap bantuan, keprihatinan dan doa anda akan dibalasi dengan ganjaran penuh kemuliaan dari Allah Yang Maha Pemurah.
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Listening being the first component of Communication skill, one has to practice this skill with all the attentiveness required to reciprocate, react and to give constructive feedback. Without listening one cannot be effective in discharging their duties in the workplace. In a nutshell, listening is considered as the key skill in communicating with others. For example, if you do not listen attentively, you cannot discharge your duties effectively to the satisfaction of your boss. You may lose the edge over your competitors in the workplace. Your appraisal may not be up to the mark. If you are a Secretary or a Stenographer, you must be more attentive compared to others. One small mistake committed due to lack of attention may put the project in problem which you are handling. Proactive listening will help you to climb the ladder of success. Active listening is that wherein you are active only in listening, but proactive listening will motivate and prompts you to take action on the points which you have listened through your boss, peers or subordinates. This will help you to become a key member of the team. You have take the expression as it is while listening to the speaker but should not react immediately.
Speaking can be mastered only with practice. The ability to speak clearly will determine the effectiveness of the individual in the workplace. Your clarity of thought is reflected in your way of speaking and choosing the right words. Choosing the right words for the right occasion to express in the right place and with right people will help you to master the art of speaking. One has to practice this art of speaking by understanding the situation and the vocabulary of different industry segments with which you are associated. SIP in the field of education means Summer Internship program but the same SIP sounds different in the field of banking i.e. Systematic Investment Plan. Before globalization the jargon of recruitment is different from post globalization. Previously it was recommendation and now it was with reference you can find a placement of your choice. Now-a-days, many are spelling the word schedule as schedule due to the influence of American work culture in the Indian Work Place. Observation also will help you to become a good speaker. Positive expression while talking to your boss, peers, and subordinates will create positive vibes in the workplace. You should not go to your boss with the word ‘complaint’ in your expression; instead you must rearrange the sentence with the expression as ‘I would like to bring to your kind notice’. This way, one can master speaking skills in the workplace and help in creating positive vibrations in the workplace.
Emotional intelligence/balance while speaking will give you edge over others. One must be Assertive communicator while talking to others. Aggressive communication or reaction will spoil the atmosphere and may not help in getting the things done. The communication must be apt to the situation and should not express in over tones.
Your perception will influence your way of communicating with others. One should not impose the perception or opinion on others through their way of expression. You must give choice and freedom to others to choose and express their view point. If you are precise and pin pointed with your communication, you can avoid politics in the work place. You can avoid grapevine in the workplace. You can avoid heart burns in the work place.
Reading maketh a complete man. This quote reflects the importance of reading in the life of a professional. Reading also includes studies, wherein you have to try to improve your qualifications and skills which would help move fast on the career path. Lack of reading skills or not concentrating much on reading the latest developments in your field will make you a novice in the workplace. Those who update knowledge of their field continuously will climb the ladder of success in the workplace without many hassles. Those who doesn’t concentrate on improving their reading skills will not be in the race of promotion or any kind of other career developing appraisals happen from time to time in the continuous learning organizations.
Writing i.e. letter drafting and report writing forms part of the life of a professional wherein one has to possess these skills to become an effective manager. A professional has to master the art of writing which is useful in the workplace to communicate effectively and to assert his stand in every situation. Lack of writing skills will be an obstruction in the progress of one’s career path and can mar the future prospects.
Barriers in communication can be overcome with concentration and observation. Focusing on the mode of communication and its effectiveness will help to reduce the effectiveness of barriers in communication. In an ‘open cabin culture’ in the work place, one cannot expect ‘noiseless’ atmosphere. Cell phones in the workplace also will become barriers for effective communication.
Basics of Effective Communication
• It matters not so much what you say as it does how you say it.
Which is the Best Style?
• All styles have their proper place and use.
Understanding Communication Styles - Passive, Aggressive, and Assertive Communication -
Passive Communication
• Allowing our own rights to be violated by failing to express our honest feelings.
Examples of Passive Communication
• “I don’t know.”
Aggressive Communication
• Protecting one’s own rights at the expense of others’ rights – no exceptions.
Examples of Aggressive Communication
• “I don’t know why you can’t see that this is the right way to do it.” • “It’s going to be my way or not at all.”
Passive-Aggressive Communication
• Forfeiting your own rights initially, followed by manipulation and vengeance later.
Examples of Passive-Aggressive Communication
• “Sure, doctor. I’d be happy to write that verbal order,” but back on the unit the order is “forgotten.”
Assertive Communication
• Protecting your own rights without violating the rights of others.
Examples of Assertive Communication
• “So what you’re saying is. . . .”
Assertiveness Skills
I - Persistence
1. Stay focused on the issue – do not get distracted, defensive, or start justifying yourself. 2. Repeat the “bottom line” to keep the conversation on track and your issues on the table (e.g., “I understand that, however we are talking about. . .”). 3. Alternative styles would withdraw or would escalate this to a battle of wills that would override compromise.
II - Objectivity
1. Focus on the problem, not on the emotions that often accompany and cloud problems. Postpone discussion if emotions cannot be contained. 2. Use the validation skill (next) to handle others’ emotions so you can focus on objective issues.
III – Validation
• Allow people to have their experience, but try to move beyond it to a discussion about the problem. • You do not necessarily have to disagree or agree – people’s perspectives are important, but they are not the heart of the issue, so don’t make a battle over them. Validate them and get to the issue. • “If that’s how you see it, that’s fine.”
IV – Owning
• Being assertive means you also must own what is yours to own. If the other person has a point about your behavior, own it (this is the “. . .without violating the rights of others” part). Bulldozing over that is aggressive.
V – Challenging False Information
• When attacked with false and negative statements, do not fall prey to defensiveness. That only escalates emotions.
VI – Pumping the Negatives
• When criticized, ask for more negative feedback – do so assertively, as though you are trying to learn more about how to be better in that area (and in fact, that should be your goal). E.g., “Tell me more about what is bothering you about my report.”
• Humor breaks down negative emotions.
When Aggression is Appropriate
• In an emergency
When Passivity is Appropriate
• When the results of pushing the issue would cause problems that outweigh the benefits.
What is “Okay” in Assertive Behavior?
• It is okay to say “I don’t know.”
Cultivate the habit of communicating assertively, to enhance your effectiveness in the workplace. Measurable performance is always assessed by way of your positive communication skills. If you are not an effective communicator, you may not be in a position to sell yourself effectively in the workplace. Thus, effective communication plays vital role for your success in professional life as well as in your personal life.