Orang-orang yang beriman dan hati mereka menjadi tenteram dengan mengingat Allah. Ingatlah hanya dengan mengingat Allah-lah hati menjadi tenteram (Ar Ra'd:28)
Sunday, August 31, 2008
My Mother...You Are The Wings Of My Heart.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Festive Season On Its Way...Marhaban Ya Ramadhan...Ramadhan Kareem!
Solidarity Is the Road To Success
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
Kekuatan Sedekah
Para malaikat kehairanan akan penciptaan gunung tersebut. Kemudian mereka bertanya "Ya Rabbi, adakah sesuatu dalam penciptaan-Mu yang lebih kuat daripada gunung ?"
Allah menjawab, " Ada , iaitu besi" (kita mafhum bahawa gunung batupun boleh menjadi rata ketika dikorek/bore dan diratakan oleh buldozer atau sejenisnya yang dibuat dari besi),
Para malaikat kembali bertanya "Ya Rabbi, adakah sesuatu dalam penciptaan-Mu yang lebih kuat daripada api ?" Allah yang Maha Agung menjawab, " Ada , iaitu air" (api membara sedahsyat apapun niscaya akan padam jika disiram air),
Akhirnya para malaikatpun bertanya lagi "Ya Allah, adakah sesuatu dalam penciptaan-Mu yang lebih dahsyat dari itu semua ?"
Allah yang Maha Gagah dan Maha Dahsyat kehebatannya menjawab, " Ada , iaitu amal anak Adam yang mengeluarkan sedekah dengan tangan kanannya sementara tangan kirinya tidak mengetahuinya".
Ertinya, yang paling hebat, paling kuat dan paling dahsyat sebenarnya adalah orang yang bersedekah tetapi tetap mampu menguasai dirinya, sehingga sedekah yang dilakukannya bersih, tulus dan ikhlas tanpa ada unsur menunjuk-nunjuk ataupun supaya diketahui orang lain.
Oleh kerana itu hendaknya kita selalu mengiringi sedekah kita dengan niat yang ikhlas hanya kerana Allah semata, tanpa berasa ingin dipuji, dianggap dermawan, dihormati, dll yang dapat menjadikan sedekah kita menjadi sia-sia.
Quality Makes Perfect (6): Self Quality
During the formal Monday morning assembly today I was a little bit stunted when the Beloved Madam Principal quoted my previous advice to my students regarding Self Quality. It is actually a very simple concept but I didn't notice that it has drawn her attention to elaborate further on that topic, I'm very grateful to God that brings the heart to heart...
Self quality concept is the standard we should impose to ourselves. For example, in preparation for the final examination, student (A) has imposed a target to score 9 A's while student (B) has only targeted 5 A's. It is just how you position yourself in life but it depends on our very own perspective be it from an Islamic perspective if we are muslim. It is worth to secure certain standard because:
- It could be guidelines for us to move ahead
- It could focus ourselves to achieve that standard
- It could prohibit us from doing evil
So, for students who have no self quality, who do not putting certain standard in their lives would have no guidelines to follow, could not focus their mind towards certain standard and they could be easily drawn near to do evil activities.
Monday, August 25, 2008
Luncheon...Taman Warisan Pertanian
TAMAN WARISAN PERTANIAN PUTRAJAYA
Taman Warisan Pertanian is located within the southern part of Presint 16 of the Putrajaya development. The park is designed to showcase Malaysia's commercial agricultural development through the centuries.
Facilities Provided:
Among the many attractions and facilities provided in the park are:
Visitor's Complex housing souvenir shops, gallery café, fruits stalls etc.
Rubber Processing Demonstration Area
Pepper and Coffee Processing Demostration Area
Additional Information
Opening Hours Open daily for orchards visit from 9.00 am - 7.00 pm Business hours : 7.30 am - 11.00 pm
MAHA2008
Finally, on the 23rd August 2008 the very last day of the exhibition, I managed to witness the Malaysian Book of Record's largest exhibiton in Malaysia, MAHA2008. Provided with very large parking area there was of no problem to park my car but to reach to the parking area was a bit time consuming. Trams were also provided to ensure the smooth running trafic to the expo location. To me the expo was really tremendous and promoting the concept of Argiculture Is Business is the bonus point to this expo. I wish greenery will be the best for Malaysia. Let's be green fingers...
- Following the success of MAHA 2006, Malaysia is once again set to host the region's largest exhibition showcasing the latest Technologies and Innovations in the Agriculture, Agro-Based, Horticulture and Agrotourism Industry - Malaysia, Agriculture, Horticulture and Agrotourism Exhibition 2008 (MAHA 2008).
- Hosted by the Ministry of Agriculture and Agro-Based Industry and organised by Federal Agricultural Marketing Authority (FAMA), MAHA 2008 is expected to be the biggest event of the year serving the Agro-Based Industry.
- Being awarded by The Malaysian Book of Records as the Largest Exhibition in Malaysia, MAHA 2008 is undoubtedly the largest industry gathering in the South East Asia region. MAHA 2008 is regarded as a 'must attend' for the industry to be updated with the latest innovations and solutions and to do business. Over 950 local and international exhibitors are expected to showcase their latest solutions to the industry.
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Action Research...Memorizing Names Using Limer Techniques
Mangingat Nama Menggunakan Kaedah (7)
1. Be interested: Many of us don't even catch the other person's name when they're being introduced; we're too focused on ourselves. So the first step to remembering a name is to pay attention as you are introduced.
2. Verify it: Unless the person has introduced himself to you, verify what he or she wishes to be called. At a conference or seminar, for example, the name tag may have been typed incorrectly or it may be a more formal or informal version of the name they like to go by.Or someone else may have introduced you who doesn't know the person well. Asking what they prefer (e.g. "Cha introduced you as Basri, is that what you prefer to be called?") will not only cement the name in your mind, but ensure you are using the name that pleases them.
Mengingat Nama Menggunakan Kaedah (10)
10 Effective ways to remember names
Feelings of embarrassment and social ineptitude are conveyed through this forgetfulness, and, unfortunately, the problem persists daily. The ability to remember names is an important skill that gives you an advantage in social and business settings. However, the way you associate and remember names is based on your learning style and personality type.
The following list of ten effective ways to remember names combines visual, aural, and strategic techniques. Once you find the best fit for you, it will become easier to avoid muttering the most awkward and impersonal sentence in the English language: "Hey you!"
1. Repetition, Repetition, Repetition
As soon as you hear a name, repeat it back to the person. "It's good to finally meet you, Shahrul Arba'iah - I hear you're the expert on sign language."
If you don't do this, you will forget her name within ten seconds of meeting her. Also be sure to repeat the name aloud in the beginning, during and at the end of the conversation. This will allow you to widen various areas of your memory circuit.
"That's a great story Shirine!" "Wow Tiaz, you obviously know your hockey." If you speak the name, hear the name, and listen to yourself say the name, you will remember it.
2. Inquiry
The number one rule in interpersonal communication is to show a genuine interest in the other person. So, ask your new colleague to explain the personal significance of their name. Ask if they go by a nickname. Inquire about the culture from which their name was derived. The spelling question is also effective. Even if Paji or Emi is only spelled one way you can always ask if they prefer "Paji," "Fazli," "Emi" or "Hazmi."
In so doing, you show them you care about them as a person. You also transform their name from an arbitrary fact into a meaningful representation of them. Ultimately, you will flatter them and make them feel appreciated.
3. Dramatize Faces
You probably remember faces better than you remember names. Great! This will only make it easier when you dramatize someone's face and associate facial feature with their name. For example, if their nose or hair is particularly memorable, make a connection using alliteration with their name. Iqram has flat hair. Hazwan has a long nose.
The trick is to make your associations and dramatizations memorable and interesting. Remember, that which is exaggerated and ridiculous is memorable.
4. Forget About You
So don't think about yourself! Forget about you! Concentrate on them. When you become too self-conscious and nervous during the moment of introduction, it will interfere with your memory.
5. Write Them Down
If you are a visual learner, write down the name of the person. This is a flawless method to remember. Most networking functions and meetings take place where tables, pens, and paper are available.
Throughout the conversation, look down at the name in front of you, and then look at the person. Azwa. Then look at the name again. Azwa. Then look at the person again. Azwa. You'll never forget.
The additional benefit when you do this, unbeknownst to you, is that at least one other person in your group will see you write the name down. Talk about a good first impression!
6. Inner Monologue
Imagine you've already used Saloma's name during the conversation. You seem to have it committed to memory. Then again, you don't want to overuse her name orally. Even if a person's name is the sweetest sound they will ever hear, you don't want to make it too obvious that you use the repetition trick.
Fortunately, there are countless opportunities during the conversation to quickly say the name to yourself while you look at their face:
· while they get a pen
· while they take a drink
· while they get something out of their desk
· while they laugh at your hilarious joke.
It only takes a few seconds to look at someone and silently think to yourself, "Saloma. Saloma. Saloma." Don't worry; you won't miss anything if you choose to do this at the appropriate times.
7. Introduce Someone Else
"Have you met my coworker Afzan?" you ask the nameless person. "I don't believe I have," he says, "My name is Farid. It's nice to meet you Afzan." Fahmi. That's his name! You thought it was Faizal! Thank God you introduced him to someone else or you would be floating up the eponymous creek.
Furthermore, if you introduce someone you just met to another person, it allows you to:
· take control of the conversation
· show your willingness to encourage connections, and
· expand someone else's network of colleagues.
8. Listen and Look for Name Freebies
More often than not, you won't be the only person who knows the name of your new colleague. This means that other people will say their name, and you will be reminded. No charge. All you have to do is pay attention.
Also remember to keep your eyes open for subtle, visual reminders such as business cards, receipts, nametags, jewelry, table tents, and personal papers. Without getting too nosey, it will be easy to identify these name freebies that paint you out of your memory corners.
9. Practice. Practice. Practice.
That's the hard part. But over time you will learn how these different techniques for name memory will work best for you.
10. Attitude. Attitude. Attitude.
That's the easy part. However, while practice enhances your name memory over time, it only takes a few seconds to decide to change your attitude. Don't let yourself think that you can't remember names. In fact, from this moment on, you are no longer bad with names. Combine this new attitude with your recently acquired skills, and you'll never have to say "Hey you!" again.
These ten effective techniques to remember names will be helpful to cross the chasm between you and a potential colleague or associate. When you identify and amplify someone's name, you won't suffer a loss of face. Ultimately, your interactions and conversations will become more personal and comfortable.
Being able to remember names is a valuable asset in both the business and social arenas. It helps you build instant rapport with new contacts, and, as many companies place a premium on interpersonal and relationship-building skills, it makes a decidedly good impression on employers, too.
So eliminate "whatshername" and "whatshisface" from your vocabulary....
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Quality Makes Perfect (5): Implementing Gap Analysis
Gap analysis involves internal and external analysis. Externally the firm must communicate with customers. Internally, it must determine service delivery and service design. The steps involved in the implementation of the gap analysis are:
- Identification of customer expectations
- Identification of customer experiences
- Identification of management perceptions
- Evaluation of service standards
- Evaluation of customers communications
Indahnya Cinta
Indahnya Cinta...belum sempat dibaca sepenuhnya buku ini dengan penuh tumpuan kerana kesempitan waktu...benarlah sebagaimana sabda Rasulullah SAW bahawa 2 perkara yang sangat patut dihargai ialah waktu lapang sebelum datangnya waktu sempit dan nikmat kesihatan sebelum datangnya waktu sakit. Semoga Allah sentiasa melapangkan waktu untuk aku melakukan pembacaan dan semoga beroleh ilmu pengetahuan yang amat berguna dari pembacaan tersebut...Amin Ya Rabb Al-Alamin.
Walau bagaimanapun aku dapat membuat skimming dan scanning dan mendapati perkara berikut tentang persaudaraan...Sebab-sebab Terjalinnya Persaudaraan:
- Mengucap salam dan memberi senyum
- Mendoakan saudara kita dari kejauhan tanpa pengetahuan orang yang didoakan
- Mengunjungi saudara kerana Allah
- Silaturrahim (menjalin hubungan kekeluargaan)
- Mengingati mati-merupakan penyebab lembutnya hati
- Memberi maaf
Semoga aku sentiasa dikurniakan hati yang lembut basah mencintai saudara-saudaraku kerana Allah. Cinta yang tiada bertepian adalah cinta kerana Allah.
You Can Be The Happiest Woman In The World (A Treasure Chest Of Reminder)
The writer of this book Dr. Aid al-Qarni, with his rich experience and wide knowledge, has compiled in this book a collection of an invaluable moral and behavioral recommendations designed for securing the welfare and well-being of Muslim women.
"The happiness of the believer lies in loving Allah, and love for the sake of Allah brings deeper happiness whose taste is known to sincere believers who do not accept any substitute for it"
"Beautiful, fair females guarded in pavilions..." (Qur'an 55:72)
Be beautiful in spirit because the universe is beautiful
The stars in the sky are so beautiful, there is no doubt about it. Their beauty takes the breath away. It varies according to the time of day; it is different from morning to evening, from sunrise to sunset, from moonlit night to a dark night, from a clear sky to a foggy and cloudy sky. It may even differ from one moment to another. But all of it is beautiful and breathtaking... (page 141)
This book has been given by my sister in Islam (NFLA) who bought it while she was in Mekah performing her second time hajj:
...My dear Kata Hatiku, Praise be to Allah for bestowing me a wonderful friend like you...
Love,
LF Jan 2008
Thank you sister, this book has helped me a lot. May Allah bestows His blessings upon us all the time. You are a wonderful friend too. Thank you
Monday, August 18, 2008
Brides and Bridegrooms of 2008
Marriage (Nikah/Shaadi) is a solemn and sacred social contract between bride and groom. This contract is a strong covenant as expressed in Quran. Both parties mutually agree and enter into this contract.
Friday, August 15, 2008
How to Win Friends and Influence People
- Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people
- Rule 2: Smile
- Rule 3: Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important found in any language
- Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves
- Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
- Rule 6: Make the other person feel important- and do it sincerely.
Quality Makes Perfect (4): Closing the delivery gap
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Quality Makes Perfect (3): What is Service Quality Gap?
Service Quality Gap indicates the difference between the service expected by the customers and the service they actually perceived or received . The wider the gap because of expectation is greater than performance, the more dissatisfied would be the customers towards the perceived service quality.
There are seven gaps in the service quality concept, Gap1, Gap2, Gap3, Gap4, Gap5, Gap 6 and Gap7. The three important gaps, which are more associated with the external customers are Gap1, gap5 and Gap6.
- The existence of Gap1 is due to not knowing what customers expect from the service
- Gap2 exists because of the wrong service quality standard adopted by the company
- Gap3 is the service-performance gap; eventhough the company has put forward the right quality standard the worker who delivered the service has a very low performance in doing it.
- Gap4 is when the promises do not match the delivery; the company promises different thing and delivers a different thing to the customer.
- Gap5 is the discrepancy between customer expecations and their perceptions of service delivered.
- Gap 6 si the discrepancy between customers expectations and the employees' perceptions.
- Lastly, gap 7 is the discrepancy between employees' perceptions and management perceptions.
So, to win the heart of the customers, the company should put forward certain strategies that could close any possible gaps. The three important gaps to be closed would be Gap1, gap5 and Gap6 as they are more associated with the customers. Therefore to labour the interest of the customers towards our service we must provide services without gaps.
Similarly in school, if we want to win the heart of our students as they are the customers to us we must provide services far better than what they expect from the school. However with the unique kind of services provided by school and the unique kind of customers that we have would that be possible to inspire a high quality standard kind of school? To know the real answer to this problem we should do a lot of research on our service as well as on our customers...the journey should have started here....
Al-aqlu Salim Fi Jismi Salim
Monday, August 11, 2008
Pa...you are always on my mind
Pa...
You are always on my mind... but at the moment I have to struggle very hard for my PhD...It really demand my time. I go out at 6.30 am and come back quite late in the evening. My writing up progress is also very slow. Below is the e-mail from my supervisor to show where am I about now. It's quite difficult to handle many things at one time but I'm sure you know your daughter well... never easily give up pa...I can still remember your piece of advice pa..."Genggam bara api biar jadi abu..." eventhough it was given 30 years back. Pa... I am in great need for your prayer...please pray for my destiny. My prayer also goes to you pa...all the time. Thank you pa...for every thing.
Dear Kata Hatiku...
Yes I am back from B & thanks for the introduction to the Case Study Format.
Well I am quite well versed with Case Study formats as I have edited 3 case study monographs in IAB. You may use the approach but since yours is a PhD Thesis you have to still keep to the conventions of a research study.
Do you think you want to see me some time soon to discuss details? Have you analysed your findings.let's sit and talk and let's complete this study by the end on this year.
Take care and all the best.
Rgds
Dr Supervisor
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Congratulation To Dr Shahrul Arba'iah binti Othman (Kak yah)
Currently teaching at MBSKL. Possess an excellent academic background. Former student of SEMSAS and represented SEMSAS in hockey during her school time (primary information gathered through personal conversation). I guess her humble motto is "Be yourself..."
I hope her victory could inspire me to complete mine too. Congratulation again, hardwork pays...